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CYBERBULLYING AND ONLINE HARASSMENT: RECONCEPTUALIZING THE VICTIMIZATION OF ADOLESCENT GIRLS
CYBERBULLYING AND ONLINE HARASSMENT: RECONCEPTUALIZING THE
VICTIMIZATION OF ADOLESCENT GIRLS
To be cited as:
Burgess-Proctor, A., Patchin, J. W., & Hinduja, S. (2009). Cyberbullying and online
harassment: Reconceptualizing the victimization of adolescent girls. V. Garcia and J. Clifford
[Eds.]. Female crime victims: Reality reconsidered. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Prentice Hall. In
AMANDA BURGESS-PROCTOR
Michigan State University
JUSTIN W. PATCHIN
University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire
SAMEER HINDUJA
Florida Atlantic University
Burgess-Proctor, Patchin, & Hinduja
ABSTRACT
Growing public awareness of electronic bullying and harassment among adolescents suggests the
need to empirically investigate this increasingly common and problematic behavior. Although
studies of cyberbullying and online harassment among young people are nascent, preliminary
findings suggest that victimization can undermine the freedom of youth to use and explore
valuable online resources, and may have negative emotional and physical consequences as well.
The current study presents both quantitative and qualitative data from an online survey of
approximately 3,000 Internet-using adolescent girls to learn more about their experiences as
victims of cyberbullying and online harassment. Though the results are exploratory and largely
descriptive, this study helps broaden our understanding of the victimization experiences of
adolescent girls in cyberspace.
Burgess-Proctor, Patchin, & Hinduja
CYBERBULLYING AND ONLINE HARASSMENT: RECONCEPTUALIZING THE
VICTIMIZATION OF ADOLESCENT GIRLS
My friend’s cousin has lately been bullying me quite a bit. She calls me all sorts
of bad things and curses me out…is sarcastic in everything she says to me and
really is absolutely terrible to me. Through talking to me online while her cousin
was watching her type she destroyed my friendship with my friend. The bullying
and torment on [AOL Instant Messenger] and on my websites made me feel
absolutely terrible…I was very upset even offline after it had happened, and it
destroyed the friendship of what used to be my closest and most reliable friend. –
9th grader from South Carolina
My ex-boyfriend and his friends leave disgusting comments in my guestbook at [an
online diary-hosting website]. Though I have locked my diary so that they no
longer have access to it, they continue to leave hurtful comments in my guestbook.
They have threatened bodily harm, and have even gone so far as to say that they
would “kill me in my sleep.” They have also OPENLY admitted to being
“obsessed” with me while taking an online survey. I feel disgusted. – 11th grader
from New York
INTRODUCTION
Research on the victimization of adolescent girls often focuses on crimes involving
physical violence, such as sexual assault and child abuse (see e.g., Finkelhor & Browne, 1986;
see e.g., Finkelhor, Hotaling, Lewis, & Smith, 2000; Kendall-Tackett, Williams, & Finkelhor,
1993; Lavoie, Robitataille, & Herbert, 2000; O'Keefe, 1997; Silverman, Raj, Mucci, &
Hathaway, 2001). However, the above testimonials from adolescent girls who are victims of
cyberbullying suggest the need to broaden our understanding of girls’ victimization experiences
to include bullying and harassment that occurs through the use of electronic media. While
academic inquiry into such behavior – alternately called cyberbullying, online aggression,
Internet-based harassment, cyberstalking, and cyberviolence – is only just beginning to emerge,
rapidly-growing media attention suggests that Internet-using adolescents are all too familiar with
cyberbullying (see e.g., Chu, 2005; Meadows, 2005; see e.g., Swartz, 2005). Still, the research
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on cyberbullying that does exist has not focused exclusively on the experiences of girls. This
study represents one of the first known empirical investigations of the online victimization of
adolescent girls. After first providing an overview of cyberbullying research literature to date,
this chapter presents both quantitative and qualitative data from an online survey of
approximately 3,000 Internet-using adolescent girls. The findings from this exploratory study
reveal patterns in girls’ online victimization experiences as well as key themes that provide
insight into how adolescent girls experience and respond to online victimization. More
importantly, the results help facilitate the process of reconceptualizing victimization among
adolescent girls to include bullying and harassment perpetrated using electronic media.
OVERVIEW OF CYBERBULLYING RESEARCH
Before we present an overview of the cyberbullying research literature, it is necessary to
define “cyberbullying” and to differentiate it from “online harassment.” Cyberbullying has been
defined as “willful and repeated harm inflicted through the medium of electronic text” (Patchin
& Hinduja, 2006). Cyberbullying behaviors can be carried out using cellular phone text
messaging, electronic mail (e-mail), and Internet instant messaging, and can take place in chat
rooms, on personal websites, on social networking sites such as MySpace, on Internet bulletin
boards, and in other web-based environments. Although in many cases cyberbullying involves
traditional bullying behaviors (e.g., name-calling, spreading rumors or lies, and making threats)
that are communicated electronically rather than in person, cyberbullying also can include
behaviors unique to the Internet that have no corollary in traditional bullying. For example,
“bombing” occurs when a bully uses an automated program to flood the victim’s e-mail inbox
with thousands of messages at once, potentially causing a failure of the e-mail software or of the
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entire computer system. The key to this definition of cyberbullying is “willful and repeated
harm.” Online victimization that is isolated or that is not intended to be malicious does not meet
our definition of cyberbullying, and therefore falls into the broader category of “online
harassment.” Examples of online harassment include individual incidents of name-calling or
threats, arguments between friends that occur over email or instant messaging, and online
comments that were not intended to be hurtful but which nonetheless were offensive to the
victim.
In large part, the occurrence of cyberbullying and online harassment is reflective of how
deeply Internet technology and electronic communications have permeated the lives of young
people. According to the Pew Internet & American Life Project's “Teens and Technology”
report, data collected in late 2004 from 1,100 teenagers and 1,100 parents nationwide indicate
that 87% of those youth aged 12 to 17 use the Internet (Lenhart, Madden, & Hitlin, 2005).
Almost three-fourths of respondents (73%) report having a desktop computer, 18% report having
a laptop computer, 45% report having a cellular phone, and 33% report having sent a cellular
phone text message. Nearly 90% of youth aged 12 to 17 communicate via e-mail and 75%
communicate via instant messaging, and nearly half (48%) report using these methods of
communication every day (Lenhart et al., 2005). Clearly, adolescents today are savvy and
voracious consumers of electronic media; thus it should not be surprising that some who wish to
tease, harass, or bully others use the electronic media with which they are so familiar. What may
be surprising, though, is the extent to which cyberbullying occurs and its effect on victims.
Results from the few cyberbullying studies that exist reveal some important information
about this emerging form of adolescent aggression. First, it appears that a sizeable percentage of
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young people experience cyberbullying either as victims or as bullies.1 In one study of Internet
harassment (defined as “an overt, intentional act of aggression towards another person online”),
Ybarra and Mitchell (2004) analyzed data from telephone interviews with 1,501 youth between
the ages of 10 and 17. They found that 7% of young, regular Internet users were the victims of
online harassment within the previous year, 3% were aggressors and victims, and 12% were
aggressors. Similarly, Patchin & Hinduja (2006) conducted a pilot study of 384 adolescent
Internet users to assess experience with various forms of cyberbullying, including bothering
someone online, teasing in a mean way, calling someone hurtful names, intentionally leaving
persons out of things, threatening someone, and saying unwanted sexually-related things to
someone. Approximately 29% of youth reported being the victim of such behavior, 11%
reported engaging in such behavior, and almost half (47%) reported witnessing such behavior.
Second, although cyberbullying occurs in a virtual environment, the emotional and
behavioral consequences of victimization are very real. For example, Patchin & Hinduja (2006)
found that over 42% of victims were frustrated, almost 40% felt angry, and over one-fourth
(27%) felt sad. The negative effects of online victimization extended beyond cyberspace, as
31.9% and 26.5% of respondents revealed that they were negatively affected at school and at
home, respectively. Moreover, youth reported that being victimized often caused them to curtail
their web usage, whether through avoidance of the venue where the victimization occurred
(32%) or by staying offline altogether (20%) (Patchin & Hinduja, 2006). However, despite the
negative effects of cyberbullying, adolescents appear reluctant to disclose their victimization to
adults, preferring instead to seek support and understanding from friends (Patchin & Hinduja,
2006).
Third, it is unclear what factors place youth at risk of involvement in cyberbullying,
either as a victim or as a bully. In a 2005 follow-up study of 1,388 youth (700 males and 688
females), Hinduja & Patchin (in review) found that neither sex nor race predicted likelihood of
cyberbullying victimization or offending (but see the discussion of gender below), whereas older
youth, youth who spent more time online, more computer proficient youth, and youth involved in
offline bullying were all more likely to be involved with cyberbullying both as victims and as
bullies. Additionally, both cyberbullying victimization and offending were significantly related
to other adolescent problem behaviors such as scholastic difficulties, assaultive conduct,
substance use, and traditional (offline) bullying.
However, there is some evidence to suggest that involvement in cyberbullying does vary
by gender. After surveying 1,915 girls and 1,852 boys in 6th, 7th, and 8th grade from across the
southwestern and southeastern United States, Kowalski et al. (2005) found that more girls than
boys reported being bullied online (25% vs. 11%) and bullying someone else online (13% vs.
8.6%). When reporting on traditional bullying, however, this gender gap did not appear; similar
numbers of boys and girls reported being bullied offline (12.3% vs. 14.1%), while more boys
than girls reported bullying someone else offline (8% as compared to 5%). Clearly, though, far
more research is needed before conclusions can be drawn about girls’ risk of involvement in
cyberbullying offending, or about their unique experiences with cyberbullying victimization.
Indeed, it is with this latter question in mind that we framed the current study.
The Current Study
Despite preliminary support for the idea that girls have different experiences with
cyberbullying than boys (Kowalski et al., 2005), the nature and extent of cyberbullying
victimization among girls has not been fully parsed out, nor have the consequences of
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victimization for this population been adequately explored. In perhaps the first study of
cyberviolence to use an exclusively female sample, Berson, Berson, and Ferron (2002:63)
studied online survey responses from 10,800 girls ages 12 to 18 and found that “a significant
number of adolescent girls are engaging in very risky activities when online and continue
potentially problematic offline practices as a result of these online interactions.” Still, this study
– while pioneering – examines girls’ risky online behaviors rather than their experiences with
cyberbullying per se. Thus, given the dearth of research on adolescent girls’ online
victimization, our understanding of this phenomenon is practically nonexistent. The current
study is intended to help fill this void. In an attempt to learn more about the unique experiences
of adolescent girls victimized by cyberbullying and online harassment, we identified the
following research questions:
1. Who are adolescent girl victims of cyberbullying?
2. What cyberbullying behaviors do adolescent girls experience?
3. Who cyberbullies adolescent girls?
4. How do adolescent girls respond to being cyberbullied?
5. How does being cyberbullied affect adolescent girls?
METHODS
Data Collection
An online survey methodology was used to explore experiences with cyberbullying
among 3,141 adolescent girls (a subset extracted from a dataset of over 6,800 total respondents).2
2 Survey was administered between December 22, 2004 and January 22, 2005.
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The cyberbullying questionnaire was linked to several adolescent-oriented websites; 3 individuals
who visited these websites were asked to participate in a survey of Internet behaviors. Potential
respondents who were under the age of 18 were instructed to obtain permission from a parent or
guardian before completing the survey. It deserves comment, however, that it was not possible
to verify whether minors actually obtained such permission.4 Following an introduction and
description of the research, the survey posed demographic questions as well as questions about
the scope, extent, and frequency of cyberbullying victimization and offending that respondents
may have experienced. Finally, the survey included several open-ended questions (e.g., “Tell us
in as much detail as possible how cyberbullying makes you feel?”) that allowed respondents to
describe their cyberbullying experiences in their own words. The primary benefit of an online
survey methodology is the ability to reach a wide number of participants at an economical cost.
Moreover, the subject matter itself was appropriate for this methodology because it involves a
global phenomenon that occurs exclusively online.
Analytic Strategy
This study uses a mixed-methods design, in which both quantitative and qualitative data
are analyzed into order to gain the broadest possible understanding of adolescent girls’
experiences with cyberbullying and online harassment. A mixed-methods design is particularly
appropriate in this study for several reasons. First, qualitative methods are particularly useful
when researching sensitive topics (Rosenblatt & Fischer, 1993). As cyberbullying victimization
may be difficult for respondents to discuss, a mixed-methods design may elicit information more
effectively than a quantitative design alone. Second, cyberbullying is a newly-emerging form of
adolescent aggression that is not fully understood. A universally accepted definition of
cyberbullying does not exist, so the concept of cyberbullying may not be adequately captured by
asking survey questions designed to measure the prevalence and frequency of specific
cyberbullying behaviors. Indeed, the qualitative data allowed us to differentiate behavior that
meets our definition of “cyberbullying” from behavior that is more appropriately labeled “online
harassment.” Third, in part due to the ambiguous definition of cyberbullying, as well as the vast
spectrum of behaviors that adolescents are likely to label as cyberbullying, establishing the
validity of a purely quantitative measure may prove difficult. Our quantitative measures were
informed by traditional bullying research and from our own previous research on cyberbullying.
Nevertheless, due to the embryonic nature of this line of research, it is in our best interest to keep
an open mind in order to establish a comprehensive conceptual and operational definition of
cyberbullying. In other words, without allowing respondents to discuss what online bullying
means to them in the context of their individual experiences, researchers cannot be entirely
confident that a survey instrument measures “cyberbullying” as it is perceived by the
respondents. Therefore, including open-ended measures of cyberbullying helps ensure that
respondents’ victimization experiences are accurately measured.
We began by using the quantitative data to examine descriptive characteristics of our
sample, from which we identified patterns in victimization experiences. Next, we used
qualitative analysis to code the narrative responses to the open-ended survey question, “Please
describe – in as much detail as possible – your most recent experience with being bullied
online.” In so doing, we looked to code around our five research questions. For this portion of
the analysis, the first author read every narrative response and identified initial themes. Once
initial themes were identified, the second and third authors each coded a subset of the responses
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in order to refine the initial themes. On the rare occasion when questions or disagreements about
themes arose, all three authors discussed the findings until a consensus was reached. In general,
however, the consensus level was very high, giving us confidence in our interpretation of the
results.
RESULTS
Who are adolescent girl victims of cyberbullying?
As noted above, data from 3,141 female respondents under age 18 were analyzed in the
current study. As detailed in Table 1, respondents ranged in age from 8 to 17 years old, with
most girls falling in the 13 to 17 range (mean = 14.6 years). Similarly, most girls (69.1%) were
high school students in grades 9 through 12. Finally, girls in the sample were disproportionately
Caucasian/white (78%), and from the United States (75%).
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What cyberbullying behaviors do adolescent girls experience?
As seen in Table 2, 1203 girls (38.3% of the sample) responded positively to the
statement “I have been bullied online.” Interestingly, when asked later in the survey whether
they had experienced individual behaviors, including being disrespected and ignored by others
online, a greater number of girls responded affirmatively. As we discuss below, this finding
further supports the distinction between “cyberbullying” and the less insidious “online
harassment” behaviors that appear to occur with some regularity among adolescent girls. Indeed,
the two online victimization behaviors reported most frequently were being ignored (45.8%) and
being disrespected (42.9%), both of which are relatively mild behaviors. Still, it is important to
note that some girls did report serious behaviors like being threatened (11.2%) that likely are
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more indicative of cyberbullying than online harassment. Finally, online victimization of any
kind occurred most commonly in Internet chat rooms (26.4%), via computer text message
(21.7%), and via email (13.5%).
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Online victimization behaviors identified in the narrative data overlap with those
identified in the quantitative data. For example, name-calling was commonly reported by the
girls in our study, who described being called “fat,” “ugly,” “slut,” “bitch,” and a host of other
unpleasant names. Similarly, the spreading of gossip – including lies and rumors about the
victim – was a very common occurrence. These themes make sense as examples of “being
disrespected by others,” a behavior reported by over forty percent of the sample. Finally, the
narrative responses lend support to the idea that adolescent girls do receive online threats,
ranging from vague warnings (“she threatened to get me”) to threats that are very specific (“she
said she would knock me out and bash my head in”) and very serious (“she [instant messaged]
me saying that she would kill me”). However, it is interesting to note that the most common
online behavior captured by the quantitative data, “being ignored by others,” which was reported
by over 45% of the sample, did not emerge as a particularly strong theme in the narrative data.
The qualitative data also revealed behaviors that were not captured by the quantitative
data. First, many respondents indicated behaviors involving duplicity, or cyberbullies’ use of
misrepresentation of self. Such behavior occurred when the bully used another person’s screen
name or otherwise concealed her identity before contacting the victim, or when she passed off
her own communications (e.g., inflammatory email messages) as the work of the victim.
Second, many girls described instances in which bullies used electronic communication devices
(instant messages, chat rooms, e-mail) to reveal confidential or sensitive information about them
to others. One victim described how “[the cyberbullies] brought up things [I] am not so proud of
that happened last summer.” A third very prominent example involves victims being teased for
sharing their opinions. Again, though more indicative of online harassment than cyberbullying,
many girls described being teased or ridiculed – usually in chat rooms, and often by several
members at one time – based on their political beliefs, musical preferences, religious affiliations,
and loyalty to particular bands or movie stars. While one might expect girls who are teased for
sharing their beliefs to feel inhibited about expressing their opinion, this does not appear to be
the case in our study. As we will discuss more fully below, many girls held firmly to their
beliefs and dismissed affronts to their opinions as immature and non-threatening. Finally, the
narrative data revealed many examples of sexual harassment directed at adolescent girls, which
appear to occur frequently in incidents involving strangers or anonymous sources. Behaviors
mostly involved unsolicited sexual advances (“[I] was online playing a game and a guy asked me
if [I] wanted to ‘suck his cock’”), including requests for the victim to “cyber” (i.e., engage in
cyber sex with) the aggressor.
Who cyberbullies adolescent girls?
Respondents were asked how often they knew the person bullying them online (see Table
3). Of the 1203 girls who reported being the victim of online bullying, only about 1 in 5 (20.5%)
“never” knew who was bullying them. Thus, most victims appear to know the bully, and report
that the bully was most often a friend from school (31.3%), someone else from school (36.4%),
or someone from a chat room (28.2%). In general, the qualitative data taken from the narrative
responses support the results of the quantitative analysis, indicating that girls most often were
cyberbullied by offline peers such as friends, ex-friends, or other classmates, and by online peers
whose screen names they knew from online message boards or chat rooms. However, the
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qualitative analysis revealed two important sources of cyberbullying not identified in the
quantitative data. First, there were several accounts of girls being cyberbullied by their exboyfriends,
which typically involved name-calling and, in some cases, threats. Second, many
girls reported victimization by strangers, usually someone with an unfamiliar screen name.
Interestingly, stranger harassment was regarded as particularly frightening to some girls (“I
didn’t even know the person so I got really scared”) and as relatively harmless to others (“I did
not [feel] very scared since [the person] did not even know my name”).
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How do adolescent girls respond to being cyberbullied?
Table 4 summarizes the responses to cyberbullying identified by those girls who reported
being bullied online (N=1203). Many girls responded to online victimization by retaliating or
“cyberbullying back” (27.3%). Notably, relatively few victims of cyberbullying informed a
parent (13%) or another adult (7%) about their experiences with online victimization. Instead,
victims were more far more likely to confide in an online buddy (46.5%) or another friend
(18.4%). Some respondents felt forced to stay offline for a period of time (17.3%), while others
did nothing different as a result of the victimization (24.5%). Finally, a significant number of
girls did not respond to the victimization, reporting that they told nobody (35.5%) or that they
did nothing at all (24.5%).
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The narrative data confirmed that many girls responded through retaliation, or
“cyberbullying back.” There are several mentions in the narratives of girls responding to namecalling,
harassment, or threats in kind. For example, one girl commented, “Some annoying kid
in my school that I didn’t really know [instant-messaged] me telling me that I had an eating
disorder and [that] I was ugly. I was annoyed and told him to go fuck himself.” This type of
retaliatory response may be particularly common among victims of online bullying because there
exists little threat of the situation escalating into physical violence, unlike in face-to-face
bullying situations. Similarly, many girls reported that they received protection from online
peers. Particularly in chat rooms and message boards, many girls reported being defended by
online peers who, together with the victim, “fought back” against the bully on the victim’s
behalf. For example, one girl described this scenario, “A person I didn’t know contacted me via
computer text messaging and we …got into a verbal argument over the computer. We basically
made fun of each other and my friend came in and supported me and made fun of the person I
was in the argument with.” Several girls also indicated that they had come to the defense of
other cyberbullying victims.
The narrative responses also confirmed that a few girls responded by taking official
action, such as contacting the Internet Service Provider (ISP), their parents, or friends, whereas
others responded to their online victimization by curtailing their web use, such as avoiding
particular websites, chat rooms, or message boards where they had been harassed. Interestingly,
contacting law enforcement was never mentioned in the narrative the responses, even though
certain severe cyberbullying behaviors (such as death threats) are criminal acts.
On the other hand, many girls did not respond in any way to their victimization.
Although it is possible that some girls did nothing or told nobody because they were scared of
retaliation, as our discussion in the following section reveals, it seems far more likely that girls
did not respond because they were not particularly bothered by this behavior. Additionally, it is
noteworthy that cyberbullying victims can “walk away” from the situation in ways that victims
of face-to-face bullying cannot. In fact, the ease of removal from the situation may be a
characteristic that is unique to cyberbullying. With one click of the mouse, victims of
cyberbullying and online harassment can block the user, log off the Internet, or shut off their cell
phone, effectively ending the opportunity for continued victimization and eliminating the need to
respond further.5
How does being cyberbullied affect adolescent girls?
Finally, it is important to investigate how victims of cyberbullying were affected by the
experience. Of the 1203 girls who reported being bullied online, almost 35% reported feeling
angry, over 30% felt sad, and 41% were frustrated by being cyberbullied. Victims also reported
being affected at home (27.1%) and at school (22.7%). However, the majority of girls in our
sample reported that they were not affected (55.4%) by being cyberbullied. This seemingly
counterintuitive finding begins to make sense once the qualitative data are examined, as we
discuss below.
First, adolescent girls who responded to our survey reported a wide variety of emotional
effects of cyberbullying, including feeling “sad,” “angry,” “upset,” “depressed,” “violated,”
“hated,” “annoyed,” “helpless,” “exploited,” and “stupid and put down.” While the quantitative
data captured a few of these emotions, the narrative responses allowed us to understand the
broader range of emotional impact of cyberbullying for victims. For example, some girls
described how the victimization made them feel unsafe: “It makes me scared. I [sometimes
don’t] know the person so that makes me wonder if [I] have a stalker, and that gets me pretty
scared.” Other girls reported having extreme emotional responses to being victimized, including
suicidal ideation. The dramatic words of one girl underscore this point:
I was talking to 2 girls who used to be my friends…they went on a chat [that I]
was also talking on and started saying horrible things about me…they used my
[screen] name and everything…they even told one of my guy friends that [I] liked
him since the day we met and he stopped talking to me…I was both depressed
and angry… [I] wanted to die…[I] wanted to leave every thing behind….”
Another girl wrote of her online victimization, “[I]t made me feel so bad I started to cry.
Nobody likes me.” Clearly, although online victimization is easily dismissed for some girls, for
others the experience is, in fact, quite painful.
However, the quantitative data also indicate that being cyberbullied had no negative
effects for over half (55%) of the respondents. The narrative responses are particularly useful at
explaining this seemingly perplexing finding, as they reveal that many girls exhibited attitudes of
dismissal. Indeed, many girls share their belief that cyberbullies are merely “stupid,” “pathetic,”
“bored,” “just trying to amuse themselves,” and “don’t have anything better to do” with their
lives. Further, it appears that attitudes of dismissal are particularly common in cases of online
harassment rather than cyberbullying. From the narrative responses, it is clear that many girls
who experience name-calling, gossiping, and other common forms of adolescent harassment
perpetrated online exhibit healthy resilience to this behavior. What is less clear is the extent to
which girls who are victims of more problematic cyberbullying behaviors are similarly able to
ignore their victimization.
DISCUSSION
In this study we have identified some patterns in the victimization experiences of
adolescent girls as well as some themes that help broaden our understanding of cyberbullying
and online harassment in this population. This analysis has provided several important new
insights into this behavior.
First, the narrative data in particular help clarify the range of behaviors that make up
girls’ online victimization experiences, and help distinguish “cyberbullying” from other, often
less serious, forms of “online harassment.” For example, the survey responses reveal that 31.3%
of girls reported being “cyberbullied” by a friend from school, and 36.4% reported being
“cyberbullied” by someone else from school. However, upon closer inspection of the narrative
responses, it is clear that most incidents of “cyberbullying” reported by the respondents are more
accurately described as “online harassment” because they do not involve willful and repeated
harm.6 Repetition seemed to be the characteristic of the victimization experience that appeared
to be missing most often. While one instance of harassment is often harmful, it fails to meet our
definition of bullying. Thus, much of the victimization adolescent girls experience by offline
peers appears to be an extension of common adolescent behavior, including name-calling,
arguing, and gossiping. Indeed, the narrative responses revealed that many of these conflicts
with friends or ex-friends were resolved and ended with the parties going back to being friends,
further distancing these examples from cases of true cyberbullying. Still, though informative,
this finding raises many questions. How often does “true” cyberbullying occur? Do adolescents
recognize or fully understand cyberbullying, or distinguish it from online harassment? Are
instances of the former more or less memorable, and for what reasons? Can rationalizations and
justifications be more readily employed because of the nontraditional context in which
cyberbullying occurs?
Second, one particularly disturbing finding is how desensitized many girls seem to be to
the threat of unwanted sexual advances that occur online. Based on the comments of several
girls, unwanted sexual advances or sexually explicit communication is startlingly common
online. In the words of one respondent, “I was on [MSN instant messenger] and somebody I’ve
never met added me. I asked who it [was], and the person started saying inappropriate sexual
things to me, so I blocked him and that was it. It didn’t bother me because I know there are sick
people out there.” Still many questions remain. Is this awareness simply an extension of girls’
awareness of unwanted sexual advancements in the offline world? Is exposure to unwanted
sexual advances simply a fact of life for Internet-using adolescent girls? If so, what impact does
this have for Internet-using girls?
Third, our data strongly suggest that many girls are simply not bothered by the online
victimization they experience. The ease with which girls dismiss these incidents, coupled with
the repeated assessments of cyberbullies as being “bored” or “pathetic,” indicates that at least
some portion of girls who experience online victimization do not suffer lasting negative
consequences. Conversely, other girls reported having severe emotional responses to their
victimization, up to and including prolonged crying, withdrawal, and thoughts of suicide.
Though this information helps us better understand the range of effects that online victimization
has on adolescent girls, it raises important questions. Are girls more inclined to be dismissive of
these behaviors because the victimization does not occur in person? Do girls who experience
more serious forms of cyberbullying suffer more serious consequences than girls who experience
online harassment?
All of the questions raised by our analysis merit meaningful inquiry in future research
endeavors. In addition, our study has several limitations which provide opportunities for future
studies to improve upon our analysis. Most notably, our sample of adolescent girls is
disproportionately Caucasian/white (78%) and from the United States (75%). Coupled with the
potential problems associated with self-selection bias related to online survey methodology,
generalization to a broader population of adolescent girls is very difficult. While the
homogeneous nature of this sample is partially explained by the web sites to which the survey
instrument was linked (which likely attracted white female respondents from the U.S.), further
research is necessary to better understand the relative lack of non-white and non-U.S.
respondents completing our survey. In particular, the question of whether access to Internet
technology is evenly distributed across social groups, and what implications this has for risk of
online victimization, needs more exploration. Of course, research employing a random sample
of a known population is necessary in order to avoid the complications inherent in our
methodological approach.
One unexpected challenge involved in our analysis involved deciphering the shorthand
language used by so many young people to communicate online.
“Sometimes referred to as netspeak, the language of the Internet entails both
traditional linguistic forms and adapted ones including slang and non-standard
forms that are sometimes used in offline life…The use of acronyms (e.g., “lol =
laugh out loud,” “brb = be right back,”), plays or variations on words (e.g., “cya =
see you,” “latah = later”), graphical icons that represent emotions called
emoticons (e.g., : ) or ;-{}) or graphical icons that represent a real person in a
virtual context, called avatars, are all examples of language produced by online
communicators.” (Huffaker & Calvert, 2005:2-3)
These factors, coupled with the disregard for conventions of standard English such as
capitalization and punctuation that so often occur in online communication, can make reading
and understanding online communications difficult for people who are unfamiliar with these
customs. For example, the following passage is presented verbatim from one of the online
survey responses: “i cant remember when i did get bullied. its just been random names like bitch
and things. if i do bully them and they get there friends who are shit hot at cussing. im a bit arrr
god what am i gonnna do? but i get over it.” This example is representative of the syntax
appearing in many of our survey responses, and it is clear that extracting meaning from passages
like this can be a difficult task. Thus, one potential limitation of our study is that we may have
misinterpreted the intended meaning of the respondents.7 Certainly, future research should seek
to more capably comprehend the complex character of cyberspace communication.
CONCLUSION
Data from this study of over 3,000 Internet-using adolescent girls has provided valuable
information about their online victimization experiences. Both the quantitative and qualitative
data identify patterns in girls’ experiences with cyberbullying and online harassment, and
highlight themes that help us to broaden our understanding of this type of victimization as it
ranges from trivial to serious in scope. Although our data indicate that much of the electronic
victimization adolescent girls experience involves relatively minor forms of online harassment,
the testimonials presented at the beginning of this chapter underscore the severe emotional and
psychological consequences that can accompany cyberbullying victimization. Although many
questions remain and much more research is needed, this exploratory study provides justification
for reconceptualizing girls’ victimization to include experiences with cyberbullying and online
harassment.
Il bullismo tra banana e piselli
Il bullismo tra banana e piselli
di
Francesco Marchioro
Non ci è dato sapere se la banana, che gialla e lucida troneggia sulla campagna antibullismo della provincia di Bolzano, abbia nella mente del «guru» della pubblicità Oliviero Toscani significati così nascosti da superare «perturbando» il senso comune e immediato che vi è associato: il pene maschile e le sue esibizioni. Ma sicuramente a noi tale «segreto» che dovrebbe insinuarsi a sconvolgere le sinapsi con cui i neuroni comunicano, non appare né per la banana né per il pisello.
Ci sembra che l’utilizzo di un simbolismo così scontato nella sensibilità comune e ampiamente usato nel linguaggio popolare appiattisca la complessità che il bullismo rappresenta, richiami il modello tradizionale, in crisi, della figura maschile, della divisione del mondo per genere (sessuale), e a suo modo confermi la visione fallocentrica del problema - bullismo, come se tale questione fosse tutta lì, in quei centimetri crescenti o calanti per cui il pene può esaltare od annullare un maschio in crescita.
Crediamo piuttosto che il bullismo non concerna ragioni tecniche, fisiologiche ma di questioni legate alla complessa saldatura di elementi tra loro in conflitto come, ad esempio, l’esercizio della sessualità, il linguaggio del corpo e la canalizzazione della forza fisica adolescenziale, il desiderio erotico e i sentimenti di amicizia gruppale, l’assunzione femminile di comportamenti violenti e subdoli (bullismo al femminile), l’uso della trasgressione e l’importanza dei valori etici.
Non si chiede certo di produrre una pubblicità che sappia giudicare o demonizzare il bullismo e le espressioni di violenza ad esso correlate, ma pare evidente che il disegno del pisello e della banana «banalizzano» il problema – bullismo per eccesso di …semplificazione, oltre che per ansia di comunicazione, come se una firma prestigiosa bastasse a far passare come «provocatorio» un messaggio per nulla «in controtendenza» come vorrebbe essere ogni campagna pubblicitaria di Oliviero Toscani.
A meno che velatamente non si voglia alludere all’ovvio e all’ottuso, a quel senso ovvio che l’autore ha esemplificato nell’opera con un linguaggio comune e simbolico condiviso, e al senso ottuso, ovvero «quello che – secondo Roland Barthes – accade in eccesso, come un di più che la mia intelligenza non giunge ad assorbire e quindi sfugge.»
Al riguardo ci intratteniamo con Anna Oliverio Ferraris, nota saggista e docente di psicologia dello sviluppo all’università La sapienza di Roma, che al tema ha dedicato recentemente un libro, dal titolo Piccoli bulli crescono e le poniamo alcune domande.
Professoressa, che cosa ne pensa del linguaggio che questa pubblicità propone?
Lo trovo rozzo e machista. In quelle immagini c’è un doppio messaggio, uno esplicito e uno implicito. Il messaggio esplicito ha come obiettivo il bullo, che Toscani mette alla berlina usando la stessa arma del bullo cioè l’oltraggio. Quello implicito associa il concetto di superiorità/inferiorità all’anatomia maschile, ma così facendo si appella ad una mentalità fallocentrica, legittimandola e diffondendola. Inutile dire che non è un tipo di linguaggio che può raggiungere il pubblico femminile.
- Oggi, assistiamo all’emergere di un bullismo femminile e ad un effetto di imitazione, ampliato dai media e da internet sia nei ragazzi che nelle ragazze.
Sta emergendo qua e là, un bullismo femminile che imita quello maschile, grazie anche alla cassa di risonanza dei media che promuovono modelli di eroine femminili che fanno ricorso alla violenza fisica. Si tratta però ancora di un fenomeno molto circoscritto. Il bullismo femminile “tipico” è verbale. Le armi usate dalle ragazze sono la maldicenza, l’insulto, la denigrazione, il sarcasmo, l’emarginazione che, come sappiamo, possono ferire quanto o più delle botte.
- Cosa c’è alla base del comportamento del\della bullo?
Nel bullo che perseguita la sua vittima c’è un disagio che può essere legato alla sua immaturità, ai modelli che trova nel suo ambiente di vita e che lo legittimano a prevaricare gli altri, oppure ad un bisogno di rivalsa e di autoaffermazione che nasce da problematiche psicologiche legate alla sua storia individuale e/o familiare. Per questo, oltre ad aiutare la vittima a sottrarsi alle angherie del bullo, bisogna aiutare anche il bullo ad uscire da quello che rischia di diventare, per lui, un circolo vizioso: per sentirsi bene deve far star male qualcun altro.
- La mancanza o l’abbandono di pratiche sociali o riti di passaggio che permettano al giovane di passare dall’infanzia all’adolescenza, dal gruppo familiare a quello più ampio degli amici o a quello imprevedibile del branco giovanile, rendono difficile o incompiuto il passaggio anche fisico all’età adulta.
Certamente, i riti di passaggio aiutano nelle transizioni da una età all’altra e dalla famiglia al contesto sociale, tant’è che quando gli adulti non ne riconoscono l’utilità e non promuovono passaggi costruttivi, i ragazzi possono escogitare altri riti per provare a se stessi il proprio valore e agli altri la propria presenza nel mondo.
- Qual è la Sua proposta per almeno riuscire a mitigare il fenomeno del bullismo?
Una serie di interventi possono essere fatti in famiglia, a scuola e nella comunità sia a seguito di atti di bullismo che per prevenirlo. Ovviamente l’educazione familiare è fondamentale e genitori preparati al loro ruolo, che sanno parlare con i figli, indirizzarli, fornire una scala di valori e dare loro anche una educazione sentimentale, sono di grande aiuto ai figli. Ma anche la scuola può fare molto nell’educare i ragazzi a relazionarsi con i “diversi da sé” che essi trovano tra le mura scolastiche, al di fuori dalla famiglia. Tra i compiti della scuola c’è anche quello di promuovere (nei fatti più che con le parole) la socializzazione e la convivenza civile. Gli strumenti di prevenzione non mancano: dall’intervento psicologico su casi particolari, al dialogo collettivo in classe, alle attività in gruppo (l’orchestra della scuola per esempio) in cui bullo e vittima devono collaborare in vista di un obiettivo comune. Non bisogna dimenticare, infine, i “testimoni”, ossia i compagni che guardano senza intervenire: più e meglio degli adulti possono porre fine agli atti di bullismo se decidono di farlo e se sanno come agire.
- E quindi, come riscriverebbe la pubblicità della banana e del pisello? E’ difficile esprime la complessità di un problema del genere con una semplice immagine, comunque accetto la sfida. Rappresenterei due volti identici, della stessa persona: su uno c’è la parola bullo, sull’altro la parola vittima… il bullo è prima di tutto vittima di se stesso, dei propri impulsi a cui non riesce imprimere una direzionalità costruttiva. Bisognerebbe però anche indicare come uscire da questa condizione, ma questo lo lascio all’immaginazione dei lettori, in particolare dei ragazzi.
Brevi considerazioni sul fenomeno del Bullismo e Cyberbullismo
Il bullismo e il cyberbullismo vengono inquadrati come azioni aggressive ed intenzionali eseguite da una persona singola o da un gruppo e che si ripetono nel tempo mirate deliberatamente a far male o a danneggiare prevalentemente un coetaneo, che non si può difendere.
L'Amministrazione comunale sta ponendo in essere una serie di azioni di sensibilizzazione sul fenomeno del bullismo e del cyberbullismo mirate a coinvolgere ragazzi, studenti, genitori e docenti in percorsi finalizzati a promuovere la cultura del dialogo e della convivenza civile sin dai primi anni di scuola.
In linea con le indicazioni nazionali ministeriali, l'Amministrazione Comunale e l'Assessorato che rappresento si muovono sull'asse della prevenzione e dell'educazione nel mondo della scuola e della società:
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rilevare e monitorare il fenomeno del Bullismo;
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collaborare con le Agenzie educative e le Associazioni operanti nel territorio;
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realizzare azioni di supporto nella prevenzione del disagio giovanile e di contrasto del Bullismo;
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sviluppare percorsi di educazione alla convivenza civile e alla legalità attraverso programmi di intervento rispondenti ai bisogni rilevati nelle aree a rischio, o specifici contesti territoriali;
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promuovere l'aggiornamento destinato al personale docente e sensibilizzare l'informazione destinata alle famiglie e agli studenti;
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promuovere la valorizzazione delle buone pratiche interistituzionali, anche tra reti di suole autonome.
I componenti dell'Osservatorio sono: l'Ufficio Scolastico Provinciale, L'università degli Studi di Cagliari – Dipartimento di Psicologia, l'Assessorato delle Politiche Scolastiche del Comune di Cagliari, l'Assessorato alle Politiche Sociali della Provincia di Cagliari, l'Assessorato alla Pubblica Istruzione della Provincia di Cagliari, l'Asl n°8 di Cagliari – Dipartimento di salute mentale e neuropsichiatria infantile, il Comando Provinciale Arma dei Carabinieri, Polizia di Stato, Questura di Cagliari.
Educare alla legalità e alla convivenza civile ,da diverso tempo presso l'Amministrazione Comunale di Cagliari , ha trovato espressione in interventi condivisi a più livelli interistituzionali, mediante la messa in azioni campo di azioni e progetti integrati.
In particolare con le Istituzioni scolastiche ho privilegiato il momento decisionale e programmatorio, istituzionalizzandolo in una Conferenza Permanente che coinvolge Dirigenti Scolastici, Amministrazione Comunale e Ministero dell'Istruzione Provinciale.
La conferenza rappresenta quindi lo strumento consultivo attraverso cui il Comune si impegna a realizzare azioni congiunte Scuola-Formazione-Territorio.
A ciò si aggiunga la partecipazione al comitato provinciale per il Bullismo presieduto dal Ministero dell'Istruzione Provinciale e di cui fanno parte le forze di Polizia, la Questura, l'Università, l'Amministrazione Provinciale e il Centro Studi IFOS.
L'approccio al problema bullismo/cyberbullismo parte da una valutazione sulla crisi delle principali istituzioni la famiglia, la scuola e la società nei confronti di un comune senso civico e del senso di appartenenza alla comunità locale e del rispetto dei ruoli e delle regole nel vivere quotidiano.
Forse nel corso dell'ultimo trentennio è stato sottovalutato il ruolo fondamentale nell'educazione delle giovani generazioni che la scuola a la famiglia ricoprono, essendosi interrotto il reciproco patto di collaborazione che originariamente esisteva.
Il gap comunicativo tra scuola famiglia e ragazzo si è maggiormente ripercosso nella gestione della responsabilità genitoriale sulle condotte illecite dei figli (culpa in educando, culpa in vigilando artt. 2047/2048 c.c.) e nella incapacità sanzionatoria della scuola rispetto alla violazione delle regole contro la persona e le cose.
Prevenire il bullismo e il cyberbullismo significa riprendere le fila di un dialogo interrotto , ristabilire un patto di alleanza tra famiglia e scuola all'insegna di una condivisione dei rispettivi ruoli , di un progetto educativo capace di accompagnare nella crescita le giovani generazioni, andando talvolta oltre corrente nella tempesta dei media che propongono modelli spesso violenti, basati sull'apparire e non sull'essere, sostenendo a tal fine percorsi di sostegno alla genitorialità e formazione permanente per i docenti.
L'impegno dell 'Assessorato delle Politiche Scolastiche é quindi finalizzato al la promozione di sinergie interistituzionali, capaci di mettere a punto azioni convergenti verso il comune obiettivo di accompagnare i ragazzi nel corso degli anni a spiccare il volo come dice Pennac aiutandoli a crescere e a sapersi riconoscere anche negli altri senza sopraraffare e senza essere sopraffatti.
Bullismo e Straining Scolastico
Inizio il mio Blog, curando un approfondimento su una delle proprietà del bullismo:
la persistenza. 
Qualora si ravvisino attacchi ripetuti, continuativi, sistematici e duraturi nei confronti della vittima è corretto utilizzare il termine bullismo; diversamente, se il comportamento aggressivo è circoscritto a poche e limitate prepotenze avvenute nell’arco di una settimana, è più opportuno parlare di azioni bullistiche.
Una particolare attenzione deve essere prestata a quelle azioni vessatorie che, seppur singole, hanno effetti duraturi nel tempo: è il caso, ad esempio, di un pettegolezzo che determina l’esclusione duratura di uno studente dal gruppo dei pari.
Potrebbe essere qui appropriato utilizzare il termine straining, definito in una sentenza del Tribunale del Lavoro di Bergamo (2005, 711/02 R.G) come “una situazione di stress forzato, in cui la vittima, in persistente inferiorità, subisce almeno una azione che ha come conseguenza un effetto negativo nell’ambiente.” In questo caso, era in discussione la causa per mobbing di una dipendente contro la sua azienda. Il Tribunale ha chiarito che la differenza tra lo ed il è da individuare, appunto, nella mancanza “di una frequenza idonea di azioni ostili ostative: in tali situazioni le azioni ostili che la vittima ha effettivamente subito sono poche e troppo distanziate nel tempo, spesso addirittura limitate ad una singola azione, come un demansionamento o un trasferimento disagevole”.
Nei casi di azioni bullistiche e straining è opportuno prevedere non solo un intervento sul gruppo classe e la comunità scolastica, al fine di prevenire il bullismo, ma anche specifiche sanzioni retributive e/o riparative per i prepotenti “occasionali” che con i loro comportamenti aggressivi possono, comunque, recare importante disagio alle vittime
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Flaming e Cyberbullismo
Iniziamo il nostro Blog, curando un approfondimento sulla tematica del cyberbullismo, in particolare il FLAMING.
FLAMING
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20.10.35 Val@rio: ah busta di piscio
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20.11.00 bellissima: ma stai zitto ke ti odiano tutti
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20.12.35 Val@rio: stai solo ke zitta
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20.12.55 bellissima: io sarò pure busta anke se nn e vero,… però sn ben voluta
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20.13.35 Val@rio: busta e pure stupida
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20.14.00 bellissima: te ciccione e pure esiliato
Il flaming (battaglie verbali online) è una forma di cyberbullismo atipica, in quanto i messaggi elettronici, violenti e volgari, sono inviati da due contendenti che hanno lo stesso potere, che non necessariamente si frequentano nella vita reale e che si affrontano “ad armi pari”, per una durata temporale delimitata dall’attività on line condivisa. E’, pertanto, molto probabile che nei prossimi anni venga eliminata dalle categorie ufficiali del cyberbullismo.
Può essere comunque utile sapere che durante la partecipazione alle chat (soprattutto le ragazze) e ai videogiochi interattivi (soprattutto i ragazzi), moltissimi preadolescenti ed adolescenti si “divertono”, insultandosi reciprocamente. In alcuni casi studiati dalla nostra equipe è stato possibile riscontrare che gli studenti che nella vita reale subivano bullismo, on line si prendevano la rivincita, aggredendo sulle chat room i compagni dei quali erano vittime a scuola.
Inoltre, moltissimi games interattivi on line (giocatore contro giocatore, giocatore contro game software, multi giocatori, ad esempio i MMORPGs) permettono agli iscritti, durante il gioco, di comunicare (chat) ed ultimata l’attività ludica di discutere le caratteristiche del gioco ed i risultati ottenuti nei Forum dedicati.
Non raramente, sia nelle chat che nei Forum vengono presi di mira, con insulti e minacce, soprattutto i principianti (new user) che, con il pretesto di errori inevitabilmente connessi all’inesperienza, diventano oggetto di discussioni aggressive (fenomeno denominato negli Stati Uniti “baiting”).
Infine, anche gli spettatori, coloro cioè che non partecipano direttamente al conflitto, hanno un ruolo nell’alimentare o spegnere la conflittualità, con commenti e riflessioni su quanto è avvenuto.
Consigliamo di non sottovalutare il flaming, quanto meno perché una lunga sequenza di messaggi insultanti e minacciosi (flame war) potrebbe, in alcuni casi, precedere una vera e propria aggressione nella vita reale.
Proprietà: intenzionalità, escalation simmetrica (contendenti in posizione one up che lottano per l’affermazione del potere), durata circoscritta all’attività on line condivisa.
Aspetti giuridici: comportamento deviante (soggetto che, infrangendo, con il suo comportamento, una norma, viola quel complesso di regole, implicite ed esplicite, condivise dalla maggior parte delle persone che appartengono ad uno specifico sistema, famiglia, scuola, società).





